Add USE_CUSTOM_DFFRAM guard

- enable it to use the small custom DFFRAM; otherwise, use the generic
  RAM verilog model
- also updated the aspect ratio of the custom DFFRAM
diff --git a/verilog/rtl/defines.v b/verilog/rtl/defines.v
index 8c96402..f5a6c90 100644
--- a/verilog/rtl/defines.v
+++ b/verilog/rtl/defines.v
@@ -7,8 +7,10 @@
 
 // Type and size of soc_mem
 // `define USE_OPENRAM
+// `define USE_CUSTOM_DFFRAM
+// don't change the following without double checking addr widths
 `define MEM_WORDS 256
 
 // Number of RAM blocks for the mgmt_core
 `define MGMT_BLOCKS 2
-`define USER_BLOCKS 6
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+`define USER_BLOCKS 6